A Healthy Love
Does a healthy love require mutual respect?
I think so. Does a healthy love require a trust? Definitely.
But the ability to trust and be trusted is a by product
of genuine love. When two people are in love they
have eyes only for each other. Does a healthy love
require sex? In my view love can exist without sex,
although, I feel that to make love is a physical need
to express that love. Making love is a physical manifestation
of the energy we call love.
Okay, so what's different to sex and
making love? If you have been in love you wouldn't
need to ask. The two experiences, although similar
in nature, are literally worlds apart.
And making love to your soul mate is
a whole different level again.
So what is the difference? I'm guessing
here, but in my opinion it has something to do with
sincerity. The deeper the sincerity the deeper the
feeling and the deeper the feeling the deeper the
experience. But that is just me. Maybe the secret
is in the mystery of love? Maybe it is just down to
you and how you feel.
My use of the word sincerity, though,
is interesting... Is sincerity an essential ingredient
to healthy love? In my opinion, absolutely yes. In
my opinion, sincerity is seriously sexy.
Tim Rees
tim@lifeisart.co.uk
